The Principle of Withdrawal and Deposit.

I recently learned about the “Principle of Deposit and Withdrawal” from an inspirational figure Apostle Moses Mukisa. This principle sheds light on how to navigate challenging conversations with our loved ones, particularly when it involves providing constructive and most times undesirable feedback and similar situations and ensure the love remains if l should say.

Affectionately known as “Ap.Mo,” he shared this valuable insight in the context of relationships, not finances, although I’m sure similar principles can apply to money matters. However, for now, let’s focus on this concept.

Before delving into the meaning of the “Principle of Deposit and Withdrawal,” I’d like to mention that Ap.Mo also discussed another fascinating principle related to relationships, which I’ll call the “Principle of Traffic Lights.” I’ll cover this in my next blog post, so stay tuned.

Now, let’s explore the “Principle of Deposit and Withdrawal.”

Deposit and Withdrawal Defined:

Deposit (in my own words, not Ap.Mo’s) involves consistently offering positive feedback, compliments, expressions of gratitude, and acts of kindness to the people we care about. It’s about continually infusing positivity into others, especially as opportunities arise. Don’t hesitate to shower others with kindness.

This concept brings to mind the Bible verse Proverbs 11:25 (NKJV), which states, “The generous soul will be made rich, And he who waters will also be watered himself.” In other words, keep pouring goodness into others without reservation.

Withdrawal, on the other hand, entails addressing areas of improvement, providing constructive feedback, and offering corrections or less-than-favorable input or feedback about someone. In simpler terms, it involves discussing things that may not be pleasant to hear.

The key point to remember here is that when you consistently make deposits into someone’s emotional bank account, it becomes much easier to engage in a withdrawal conversation later on. Whether you’re giving or receiving feedback, this approach not only eases the conversation but also ensures the other person is more likely to listen and understand without becoming defensive. It shows that you’re coming from a place of goodwill.

Let’s make it a habit to deposit positivity into others continuously. Whether it’s your friends, partners, colleagues, or neighbors, let’s invest in our “people bank.”

Don’t forget to check out my next blog post for another insightful principle.

Until next time, stay growing and glowing.

Thank you for your comments & feedback in advance.